Working with my father who is 88 is an incredible gift. Read that again working with my father my 88-year-old octogenarian father is an incredible gift. Why? Because he sets the tone for what’s possible. Read that again. My father sets the tone for what’s possible. And while we work on removing our parental programming, we should not remove it completely. Without the good parts what would we be only the bad parts? And stripping out the good with the bad means it’s all or nothing, which is also a lie of the binary.