Digital instant communication has eroded the value of good news that we receive about ourselves. Instant communication: when we get good news, we feel great and the first thing we wanna do is text our significant other or someone else that has an interest in our life and likely the feeling good will gain validation from them. But my point is when we immediately get that good news I’m talking the immediate moment that you get that good news, you get that email you finished that phone call you get that payment, immediately when that feeling hits, we immediately think about who we can share with, but that dilutes it for ourselves. We need to hold onto that moment more we need to not instantly communicate more. Instant communication should be as valuable as the Star Trek enterprise instantly communicating to earth. They only do it when absolutely necessary. Otherwise, hold onto it for yourself because it can wait and I guarantee you that waiting to. I guarantee you that sitting with that alone and waiting to share it with someone when they are available when you have actually crossed pass that feels good that feels better.

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